I had a confrontation with someone in a restaurant and held my tongue, but I continue to be in a bad mood.
That day in the restaurant, because of the matter of grabbing a seat and people quarrel, the other party's attitude is particularly rude, I was on fire, really want to do it, but in the heart and a little bit scared, staring at his head, I want to slap the past, but in the end the rationality to pull me back.
After leaving, this matter is always in my head, holding a fire in my heart, especially want to beat him, the next two or three days also think of this from time to time, the more I think the more angry.
I mused that it probably had something to do with my experience of being bullied as a child.
I'm a bit introverted, sensitive, paranoid, insecure, and always a bit defensive towards others.
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💫 the other day in the restaurant because of the problem of occupying the seat with someone got into an argument, the other party is particularly arrogant, I was so angry, but really want to do it and a little bit of a wimp, looking at his head want to slap down, but fortunately reason prevailed.
☀️ Law of the Garbage Man: In The Law of the Garbage Truck, David Pollet mentions that some people are like moving garbage trucks, dripping with negativity and dumping garbage everywhere. If you take them seriously, they catch a chance to dump their garbage on you. Not getting involved with them is not cowardly, it's smart. As the old saying goes, you can't mess with them, you handled it right this time.
💫 I kept thinking about it afterward, and I was so angry that I wanted to hit him, and my mood suffered for days. I think it might be inseparable from my experience of being bullied as a child. I am now introverted, sensitive and suspicious, insecure and defensive of others.
☀️ You've been angry about this because you think how can there be such people in the world, and we haven't had much to do to rule them out. Your anger reminds you of being bullied as a child, and you feel like your character is screwed up by these people. Stay away from trashy people, find your own direction, don't waste your mind over this kind of thing, and exercise more in general to release stress and make your mind more peaceful and mature. This is quite common in society, it's pointless to bother with these people, they are of that quality and it's hard to communicate with them, so just mind your own business, come on!