After graduation, I always feel that I am getting worse and worse, I can't do the physical work, I can't do the mental work, I can't express myself well, I can't react slowly, I have high self-esteem, and I have been unemployed for a long time because of various reasons.
Now do not know what to do, do not want to find a job, do not want to go out, do not want to communicate with people, especially hate such a self, before graduation that kind of insistence on not giving in to the strength of the whole is gone, only the remaining timid and cowardly! What should I do? What should I do?
Hello, friend!
After graduation, I was always unemployed and found that I was not considered smart, not fluent enough to express myself, not responsive enough, and did not seem to excel in any particular area, so I felt very frustrated and lost a bit of confidence in re-entering the workforce, and I did not know what to do.
Many graduates often say that "graduation is equal to unemployment". For students who have been facing the pressure of further education, finding a job after graduation is like a drastic change in life because the rules of the workplace and school are completely different. Some people have a clear career direction from the beginning, but most of them may just go with the flow to the graduation point and feel confused about the future, not knowing what kind of job they are suitable for and what kind of job they can find.Many people describe the first two years after graduation as a process of trial and error, because only by trying can we know whether it is suitable or not, and at the same time, as a newcomer to the workplace, there are still a lot of things to learn and adapt to. So this stage may often hit the wall, be criticized, and even be looked down upon by seniors.
In fact, sometimes it is quite normal to be scolded or despised, because it directly points out your deficiencies and areas for improvement, which is much better than groping around blindly by yourself and not knowing what is wrong. Maybe some people's attitude does hurt their self-esteem, but we can't ask for free guidance at the same time with a friendly attitude.The process can be physically and mentally exhausting, but the key is to see what you have learned, whether you have improved today over yesterday, and whether you have made the same mistakes again. Learning is not just about knowledge and skills, but also about things like work ethic.
It's not hard to find a job, but it's hard to find the right one, and just because it's right now doesn't mean it's right forever. It's certainly nice to be excellent in all areas, but most people are average. And many jobs don't require top talent, or else they might not match instead. Knowledge, skills, and even the ability to express and think at work can be acquired through later learning, so a willingness to learn is especially important.But sometimes even after all this, you still can't find a job that matches, because it's so difficult to match, so many people work just to make a living and have nothing to do with their professional hobbies. It may also be because of the general environment, such as the epidemic affecting the industry downturn, or the timing is not right, such as years ago when there were fewer jobs. So it can be a long process that requires persistent job searching or employment before adjustment.